September feels like the start of a year: we go back to schedules, school, projects. It's a good moment to build a morning that supports us rather than rushes us.

Simple beats perfect

The morning routines in magazines often have ten steps and start at 5 a.m. For most people they don't last. A good routine has three or four parts you can do even on a bad day.

A four-step suggestion

  1. A glass of water, before coffee.
  2. Daylight, a few minutes at the window or outside.
  3. A check-in with yourself. How did I sleep? How do I feel? What's weighing on me today?
  4. One important thing. Choose the task that matters most and decide when you'll do it.

Your phone can wait

The first minutes of the day set the tone. If you start them with news and notifications, your mind goes straight into reaction mode. Try to leave your phone aside for at least a quarter of an hour after waking.

The evening prepares the morning

A calm morning often starts the night before: clothes ready, tomorrow's list written, a reasonable bedtime. Tomorrow's you will be grateful.

This article is for general wellbeing, not medical advice. If you're struggling, talk to someone you trust or a professional. Get help now.